I woke up 5 am to Skype into my cousin’s wedding. Unfortunately it happened to be dinnertime there, (my second favorite wedding activity) so I went back to sleep and woke up again at 7 am. It was 9pm there and time for dancing (my number 1 favorite wedding activity), so it was a bittersweet because I knew when people said goodbye to me they were headed to the dance floor without me. It was, however great to see everyone, I even met a few new people, including Rae (I think) who is six and Rosemary who looked about four, and eager to tell me that it is gross to eat raisins after you stick them up your nose, advice that I promise to take to heart in the future. They were kind enough to tackle William, who was shy, and hold him down long enough so I could meet him. All of the family with whom I spoke confirmed that they were, or would be reading my blog in the future, so now I have some real pressure to come up with something better than bathroom humor.
I would like to assure you that while I was not present at the wedding my Saturday too was filled with merrymaking. I went to 2 barbeques and ate my weight in cake since I knew I would have to watch people eating wedding cake on the internet and I didn’t want to feel left out. I am still so full, that I really am considering a day of fasting, with coffee of course. Now that my addiction is full fledged I don’t want to know what would happen if I went a day without it. Scary!
My day began with a brisk walk to Kaufland. On my way there a man, who I had never seen before, looked me in the eye, smiled, and said hello, he too was obviously American. “Oh no, how did he know?” I thought. “Was it because I was walking fast?” I was rather disheartened that after living here for 5 weeks I could be so easily pegged as am American. When I got to Kaufland I shared this story with some fellow PC trainees who I was meeting there. They, being much more in the know than I am, informed me that it was likely David from PC Romania group 26 (last years group), and he had probably recognized my picture from facebook. After hearing this I was my mind was put at rest and I was able to focus on the next task at hand, buying phone credit, which still makes little to no sense to me. The man at the Orange store asked me if I was a Peace Corps Volunteer. Some people in town do know who we are because there have been things on the news, and in the newspaper about us, but his use of the name Peace Corps took me back a bit. As it turned out he had been David’s host brother last year when he was a trainee. “Oh, I just met him, kind of,” I replied. I decided after that that this town of 80,000 people is already getting very small. It feels already feels a bit like home, and I imagine it will be hard to leave when the time comes.
After I had spent all the money I had brought on phone credit I helped with the serious task of shopping for the American BBQ. After going to three butchers we finally found meat that somewhat resembled ground beef we headed to Aaron’s Mansion. Before coming to Romania Aaron lived in an apartment, but now that he is a Peace Corps volunteer he lives in a beautiful mansion outside of town. I find this rather Ironic. Apparently, the weekend before a bunch of trainees had gone over there to plan lessons and Aarons host family had made them a giant Romanian BBQ, so it was the Americans turn to return the favor, and thankfully I was invited along for the ride. Not only was it excellent, but also I have been trying to think of something to make my gazda (host) family and somehow had never thought about making American hamburgers.
After eating 2 hamburgers, and some Romanian BBQ, that Aaron’s host family had stuck on the grill. I headed off to a BBQ in honor of my host brothers friends party part two. There we ate mici, and some sort of mini hotdog type thing, the name of which I forget, followed by chicken and more mici.
Having been to about 7 BBQ’s now I feel that I can somewhat safely say that mici is a Romanian BBQ essential. Mici is spiced ground meat, which is formed into small sausage like shapes. I am probably not the world’s best food critic since I am not all that discerning, but I think it is excellent. I do however think, that like hotdogs, mici is better enjoyed if you don’t pry too much into the actual ingredients.